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The Quality Of Our Relationships Determines The Quality Of Our Lives!

A casual over clinical psychotherapy approach. Rebuild your sense of safety, trust & confidence for healthier relationships with yourself & others.

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Are you ready to create healthier relationships with yourself & others?

Exploration into our social and emotional behaviours can be uncomfortable, but it transforms our conscious awareness and creates positive change & growth within all of us.

Divorce & Breakups

We can feel like we’ve lost everything, even if the relationship needed to end. The grief after a breakup or divorce is rarely simple. We’re grieving shared routines, emotional intimacy, and the version of ourselves we were in that relationship. Some days, we’re coping. Other days, we’re replaying what happened, what we said, or what we wish we could undo. Whether we’re navigating the end of a marriage or recovering from a painful breakup, the emotional fallout can feel endless. This is where online therapy for separation or divorce can support us, to help us move forward, gently and with clarity…

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Singles & Dating

We may be single, but still emotionally entangled in past relationships. Or we may feel stuck in dating patterns that repeat, attracting avoidant, inconsistent, or unavailable partners. We might overfunction, overthink, or feel unworthy in romantic connection. It’s hard not to wonder, why am I still single? The truth is, relationship anxiety, attachment wounds, and early relational experiences often shape who we’re drawn to. This is the work of dating with self-awareness, clearing what no longer serves, and making space for connection that feels safe, mutual, and emotionally available.

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Couples Therapy

We can love each other and still feel stuck in painful patterns. When communication in a relationship breaks down, even small conversations can turn into conflict, defensiveness, or withdrawal. We may find ourselves looping in the same fights, avoiding intimacy, or walking on eggshells. This is more than miscommunication, it’s nervous system overwhelm. With the right support, we can learn how to self-regulate, understand our relationship triggers, and use tools like love languages, attachment theory, and emotional safety to build trust again. If you’re looking for online couples therapy with a different approach, we can start here…

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Attachment & Emotional Patterns

We all have emotional patterns that run beneath the surface of our relationships. Maybe we attach quickly and feel anxious. Maybe we pull away, even when we want love. Maybe we don’t feel safe being seen. These patterns come from somewhere, and they often show up as conflict, miscommunication, or emotional shutdown. Whether you're exploring anxious attachment, avoidant tendencies, or a fear of intimacy, therapy can help unpack what’s driving the discomfort. This is where we learn to relate differently, to ourselves and to others.

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Grief

We can struggle to say goodbye in fear that if we let go, we will lose someone or something? We can often feel stuck, and we find ourselves grasping on tightly and unable to let go. Or perhaps, we fear the feeling of failure at the end of another relationship? Grief is not just associated with death; break-ups, divorce and loss of friendship also require grieving in moving forward…

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Whether your single or married, if we don't have our 50% of a relationship sorted we will end up sabotaging it!

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Are you tired of feeling unsuccessful in your relationships? Are you wanting that deep connection with that new romance or your partner? But always seem to end up feeling let down or alone?

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Hello, I’m Charlotte Spurway (GMBPsS), and I’m a psychologist. Now that we are acquainted, please call me ‘Charlie’! 

Let’s be realistic; life is challenging, it hurts sometimes, and we can so easily feel the tide come over us. I provide an approach which I didn’t see it at first, but my path into finding me, and the journey I started in helping myself, ended up being my path into helping others. Now perhaps, I see this as the start of my true calling, being true to myself and finally feeling like I am on the journey that was meant for me.

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GMBPsS, MSc, BSc, PGCE. ACTP CPC.

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